A little past due, with many missed months of blogging in between. As winter depression sinks in and I await any sign of sun, I decided the best way to conquer those blues is by looking back at what I accomplished in 2024 and begin planning the fun I will embrace in 2025.
Last year I did a bingo card with a list of what I wanted to achieve in 2024. I truly believe in writing things down and watching them manifest without putting in too much effort. Effortless Action’ was a phrase I picked up last year and will continue to live by. I interpret it to mean- we shouldn’t put so much work into something but rather ease into what’s next and watch life transfigure into what it is meant to be.
I had to dig through my Frida journal to find my bingo card and it surprised me what I did NOT achieve. Ie: going to a music festival, take a class about something new, spread appreciation weekly, go two weeks without social media. But what I did achieve was great!
Know I need to continue to set goals to avoid becoming complacent in routine. For me routine is my killer of joy. I have to remain open to new sights and sounds and remember to close off the noise that surrounds me.
This has been challenging as I started work on premises surrounded by other humans 🙂 Also doesn’t help that last time Trump was in office I was able to escape the noise by living in Thailand, but now am tethered. I took a baby step last week by stopping at Burnet Woods on my way into work to admire the snow perfectly aligned on the tree branches. This person that I find when spontaneously doing such things is the core of my being. I will continue to feed her.

January started off great, ringing in the New Year with George, Charlie, Angela and Dale. Then catching a flight to Germany with Zoe as I attended the Heimtex Textiles show. Zoe and I stayed an extra weekend and despite the train strikes, took a bus to Heidelberg which was fantastic!

February was mostly hunkering inside to avoid the chill, similar to where I find myself today while typing. But last year I was able to get out on a walk with Kevin over the river capturing some amazing views of the city as the night fell. Also tried out a new coffee shop with Sedona in Walnut Hills.

March was great! I booked a long weekend in Scottsdale, Arizona hoping to grab some much needed sunshine only to discover Spring Training going on. Did some hiking in Sedona, Arizona. Saw an Aimee Mann concert and drank a green beer on St. Patty’s Day with Sedona and Namgi.

In April, Debbie and I did our best to chase the sun and took a round trip day in Tampa, Florida- highly recommend this adventure! Especially with a laid back friend. Spent a weekend in Cincinnati with Angela and Dale. Celebrated George’s birthday with after school bowling while my twins celebrated their birthday adventuring in Arizona on a sister trip with Solaire.

May was filled with friends. Murder Mystery dinner party, Reds baseball game, trip to Tennessee to see family, exploring Indiana with Virlane, and hosting a fun dinner with Namgi’s parents visiting from South Korea. A lot of memories. Also the celebration of life of my dear friend Beth. I recently had another reiki session and find I am still holding onto a lot of grief with losing her friendship.

June came with a wonderful visit from Zoe and Leo ( Brazilian Cambly friend). A hike with Linda, which was long overdue, as well as a spur of the moment drink with Sarah and Kathie.

July- I visited Grand Rapids, Michigan for my nephew’s wedding. Was wonderful seeing all our relatives again and capturing a photo of the cousins together. (minus the groom who was busy) Saw the Pompei Exhibit at the Cincinnati Museum Center, nature is wild and relentless. Then spent a weekend in Indianapolis with Sedona attending a throw back UB40 concert! Lastly experienced my first silent disco with Angela in Louisville. Great way to let loose tension!

Last minute in August, Kassie convinced me to fly to Aspen for a weekend to see Bobby and Lisa. What a beautiful place to visit. Day drinking off season like we owned the town. Was inspiring to see the business the Kunkles built out there with Wendy. (Kemosabe) Earlier in August I spent a simple weekend hiking near the farms of Ohio with Debbie. Cherished childhood friend visits squeezed into one month.

September business trip to NYC- allowed me to squeeze in another hello to Kassie and a grab a hug from Solaire. Spent an amazing night at Stephanie’s lakehouse, hiked with Rebecca and went to the Hip Hop Exhibit at Cincinnati Art Museum with Sedona.

October is my month to visit Zoe in California. I told her we needed to do less this visit, and do two long weekends instead of one week long road trip. But those two weekends were like a month of sights! Was the most beautiful visit to June Lake, Mono Basin and Yosemite National Park. We even caught the view of a comet that only went around every 800 years or so!

The following weekend we took off to Death Valley which was seriously like nothing I have ever visited before. Hiking landscapes were beautiful, desert sands, artist palette painted mountains which are impossible to photograph (least on my old Iphone which I got in 2019) salt basins and a brewery to boot over on the Nevada side.

Can’t leave October without mentioning my fabulous trip to Grand Rapids again to spend Halloween with Trisha and Tim while babysitting their new grandchild. We took time to go to Meijer Gardens and see the Japanese Garden section which was amazingly transitioning to fall colors. Early voting began in Ohio and I picked up a penny outside the venue which reminded me of my mom and I wondered what she would think of it all.

November came with a babysitting gig with my grandcat Luca. Went Christmas shopping in Waynesville, Ohio and met up with some great women! KangKang came for a visit and we had a blast! George prepared his usual overkill Thanksgiving meal and hosted a wonderful party.

December came with a bang! Ballet with my twins, a wonderful night out together. A new tradition which quiets the mad rush of the holidays and allows us time to appreciate each other. Ice skating on Fountain Square with Charlie and my girls, a visit from Tiffani and matching Xmas pjs. Great news came with a year end visit with Solaire- she’s having a baby girl in May!! Super excited!
















































































































































